Thursday, January 23, 2014

Wintervention

These are the only boots I've been wearing this season!  My ski boots have been neglected.  

We are in serious need of some snow. The temp has been averaging at about 40 to 50 degrees here everyday which is a tease for you guys back in New England, but I could go for a cold front if that meant we could have some snow stick around here. 

It's almost February and I was in boyfriend jeans and ankle boots last game!

We did go skiing for the first time last week and there is a bunch of snow in the higher elevations, but the conditions aren't even comparable to last year. It's also hard to get motivation/think about skiing when ur still looking at grass outside your window.The weather ahead does look like snow, but today it was suppose to start and it's 40 and sunny. My poor friends are probably going to get hit with a blizzard the entire time they are here!


Craig and I have been spending a lot of quality time together packing it in before all our awesome guests arrive. It's like serious quality time too, from when the coffee brews till Craig asks me to move over because I'm hogging the bed. The only time we spend apart is the 2.5 to 3 hours he is at practice and I've been going in with him too to meet the ladies at the gym.




 Without tv you are kind of forced to entertain each other, we don't really get bored we just become weirder and weirder when we are confined to our apartment because of rain. 

But the time we spend together now is invaluable, we will never be able to spend time like this together until we both are retired from our future careers. When he goes away for games sometimes I miss him (after I have caught up on all my reality tv). I can't imagine how we spent 4 months apart now that we literally spend every waking hour together. 

Craig's been teaching me how to play the guitar, I'm awful.


 I have always had an issue with music. My parents BOUGHT (not rented) my sister a clarinet, me a bass clarinet, and my brother an electric guitar when we were younger and I think we all lasted maybe a week in band. Weird because my mom was violinist. It's a struggle for me but my first song "free falling" by Tom pretty or its suppose to sound like that. 

Like I mentioned we went skiing. It was a great day, I was completely blown away with how good Craig was his first day back. He picked up right where he left off. Which is great because we have officially booked our part 1 honeymoon to Chamonix, France for some serious skiing. This was all Craig's idea believe it or not, but has been on my bucket list and I am so siked. It's also really neat that Craig's parents spent part of their honeymoon there too! I can already taste the crepes!








We also did a date day/night on his day off. We don't do "dates" ever. If we are in the city back home we usually meet up with people its never just us or were at the lake with family.    We just never get dressed up and go out alone, unless were getting dressed up in snow pants to explore outside. 
 
So it was nice to get a little dolled up and head into the city!

We did a little shoppin, went to a brewery, and went real fancy for dinner...PIZZA my favorite. 





Diavolo the best!



bogarting the treats

strudel was no good

I previously had brought up the idea of serving pizza at our wedding for the meal. Both Craig and my parents said absolutely not because you can't have all these people come/fly in and you have a pizza party. I think they actually said it would be embarrassing. But you tell me this...when's the last time u heard someone say that pizza party was shit! Or man I didn't like that pizza party. Never because you know what? everyone loves pizza. And u can glam it up like I recently had an Apple Gorgonzola pizza. We could have lobster pizza and all different kinds. Our favorite and most consumed food we eat is pizza. Everyone keeps saying it's your wedding do what makes you happy etc so I've decided I am serving pizza at least for cocktail hour! Stuffed chicken or poached salmon, some starch, "seasonal veggies" and a crusty roll ain't gonna happen. 





Anyways, we also went roddeling!!!!! We rented some rodels and went on a new route we found off the side of the road. It was almost 5 km all the way up, and took us 1 hour and 45 mins. Of course I was left in the dust again by Craig and had to listen to my breathing the whole time which I sounded like a 500 lb smoker. Pulling a sled up a mountain for 2 hours is no joke. I have decided next time Craig wants to climb a mountain (which is often) I'm bringing my headphones. 









We just got to the top in time before the sun and temp went down. It was my longest rodel yet, about 20 minutes of hairpin turns, bumps, and laughing like children. It's seriously the best!



Mary Berry
My cooking hasn't been like astounding lately but sometimes if you do simple things well it's just as good as some elaborate meal. I've mastered burgers and salads, and I can make a decent soup.  I am currently obsessed with spinach/lettuce, feta, dried cran, sesame seeds, veggies, and balsamic.  I am definitely slacking in the creativity department, but it is extremely hard to shop here and slim variety.   





Zucc soup...tasted how it looks lol
 So we went shopping the other day and I swear I put a thing of healthy choice chix soup for lunch and we got home and it wasnt in the bags.  Instead of having something else I made my own chix soup and it was pretty good, and a huge step for me.


Zucc spaghetti 

I am hoping to whip up some good pinterest meals when they girls are here.  



NOW ITS GURLLLL FRIEND TIME FOR THE NEXT 8 DAYS!!!  THEY ARE COMING TOMORROW!!! 

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Weekly Cuteness snapped a photo while we were chatting the other day!




Monday, January 13, 2014

Laughter is the best medicine

Although it was a quick trip home to mourn and celebrate my grandmothers life, I made the best of it as she would have wanted. It was a really tough couple of first days, mixed emotions of laughter and tears, and then she passed and joined my grandfather in heaven. 

All of her family flew into Boston for the funeral and it was so nice for the Pasquariellos to all be reunited ( nick we missed you but hope your enjoying Australia). We decided to head to Kings for a bowling night she would have loved all of us together, enjoying each other's company in her honor. I want to give a special thanks to Mindy, Justin, and Melinda from braving the ice storm and making it to the service words can not explain how much that meant to me and my family. I also wanted to thank everyone who sent their condolences, flowers (our house was full of beautiful arrangements), and cards. We are very blessed to have such wonderful people in our lives. Here's a little video recap of my time home hope you enjoy!









I've got the next 2 weeks off to spend with Craig and then it's busy busy and I'm so freaking excited to have my friends here!




Jan 24-feb 2nd Shawna, Colleen, and Jaime arrive for an Austrian/Germany/Swiss extravaganza 


Feb 3- feb 9 Craig and I depart for our part 1 honey moon France ski a thon 


Feb 10-feb 18 Kat Rose visits for our Innsbruck/London/Amsterdam whirlwind tour 

Feb 20- feb 24 Meg gets here to visit me and Gina and lose to me in the rodel championships

 

So I am going to do the best to keep up with my blog it's going to be amazingly chaotic! I am so happy to be sharing this experience with the people I love most. 


Thursday, January 2, 2014

Jelle and Crash

I had a migraine last week, an aura migraine which causes me to loose my eye sight and makes me extremely sensitive to light and sound.  The best cure besides prescriptions (which I didnt have) is to drink black coffee.  The caffeine is suppose to constrict the blood vessels and help with the pain (which is like an ice cream headache for hours on end), anyways the caffeine caused me not to sleep and my brain basically turns to mush when it passes.   So, that night I was thinking about the Heidi and Spencer After Shock we were all trying to download to watch, and then I thought about how people call them Speidi, and then I came up with a name for Elle and James: Jelle and then Craig and I: Crash.  
Anyways, James and Elle came to visit!  It was great to have family there for Christmas and it was awesome to be able to spend some serious quality time with these two.  Craig had a busy schedule so for the first part of their trip I played tour guide, first stop Christmas Martket, duh. 






homemade potato chips!


gluhwein

first time eating Austrian Food!!!



So happy, oh gluhwein

Before the game I decided to take them up to the Hungerburg Christmas Market, Meg showed me this place last year and its has the best view of Innsbruck, a tad chilly but so worth it!





A trip up to seefeld was the perfect place to spend Craigs only day off, we were all able to really enjoy The Woods, think we are becoming regulars.


soon to be sisters!

soon to be all Switzer's!

Craig, why so confused?


Brothers!

Schnapps


The Woods had the most outrageous unbelievable DJ. I have never seen one person consume so many beers and schnapps, he was loving life getting the crowd going playing the most ridiculous American songs, might have to get him for our wedding. 

It was my favorite night;  great drinks, weird music, and tons of laughter.   


We decided the next day that we all needed some fresh air and headed up to Praxmar for some aggressive snowshoeing.  Elle and James took another route because Craig was trudging up the mountain like he was on fire, I wobbled behind him in a deep sweat the entire time but the view was as always breathtaking.





Favorite animal, minis!

Oh and we watched some hockey too!  Although for Elle and I the games consisted of us chatting about wedding things (we are both getting married this year!).  It was so nice to have someone to bounce ideas off and stress out with, thanks Elle for reminding me ours is coming up soon 





 Amber from Teen Mom was at the game

Martha aka for 2014 Mary Berry (English food writer)

I did some decorating to get us in the spirit.




It is a little bit of a challenge when your living room is painted and decorated like the Caribbean.  Last year we received gifts from our landlords and we did the oh shit, we didnt get them anything!  This year Craig came home with chocolates and champagne for them and I was like YES!!!!!  They are going to love it we did so good.  Then we opened our door to get homemade cookies, and an expensive bottle of champs (we went with brut, so not classy) anddddd two champs glasses with our names engraved in them, so outdid and so grateful!


I am

I ate all the cookies, no I am not being that girl thats like omg I ate all the cookies and only had one like I seriously ate them all, Craig maybe had 2.  So good, and no I dont feel guilty.

James and Elle would have been happy with anything I cooked, but when you are cooking a holiday meal it adds pressure because you want to do it well and then you have guests so it HAS to be edible. Being abroad its hard to find classics, because their classics arent the same as ours.  You have to improvise and make alot of it from scratch (aka no stovetop) for others this might seem nice oh I get to be creative etc for me its overwhelming.  But everyone really enjoyed it, or thats what they told me.  No one was in the bathroom for hours = success.


Christmas day we went with cinnamon sweet potatoes, broccoli, A TURKEY, stuffing, fresh bread, homemade gravy, and finished it off with apple strudel. Cooking a turkey is no joke, I had help cleaning it and stuffing it (thanks James).  I tee-peed it with tin foil.  It said to baste it every 45 mins.  So after the first hour I was so excited to rip the tin foil off and see all the juices and smell the wonderfulness.  Hmmmm there was no juice and the thing was basically still raw, I had a serious OH SHIT moment.  

No Griswold moment, and it eventually it turned into the turkey I was expecting. 




For Christmas eve we thought we would do Austria food, and got this insane pork belly thing. Oh man it looks scary but it was AH-MAZING!



Thank you James and Elle for visiting us, I had a blast and what great memories we will all have for the rest of our lives!!! Oh and my last blog post I was saying how I had to make a dough 2013 ornament, Elle got us matching personalized ones, love her!

Unfortunately, on their last day I got some bad news that my Grandmother wasnt doing so well, and had gone downhill in the past 24 hours.  Everyone was trying to keep it from me, and I had to reassure them that I wasnt going to be irrational and hop on a plane.  I lied and thats exactly what I did.   


I missed the weather (way more snow here then Austria) look at Aliza's car in the back

When you decide to live in Europe you obviously make the choice of moving away from your family, and it is definitely worth it, its the one time on our lives were we are able to be selfish and travel the world.  But when I heard the news I never thought twice about flying home, I did not care if it was going to take me 20 hours (which it did) family always comes first, and there was no way I was going to let them go through this alone.  Also, I am obvi not working so if I could come home and babysit Max our dog, then thats the least I can do.  

I got to see my angel Isla, who instantly took all my sadness and pain away.  She has done this for all of us through this tough time.  Craig has also been amazing, when I first told him he said lets go home, not well I have some games and its gonna be expensive it was like lets do what we have to to make the situation better.  I cant thank him enough for being there for me and my family.
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She was the women every women wants to be.  Beautiful inside and out, smart and witty,  funny, an amazing mother of 4 successful children and 10 grandchildren, and a supportive and loving wife.    Her and my Grandfather built a beautiful life from nothing. Hard work was her motto, and you can never have to many shoes (i will be walking down the isle in a pair of her vintage Ferragamos).  A caretaker by nature, and a pioneer in the nursing world.  I can only hope I grow up to be half the women she was. 

My Grandmother has been battling dementia for some years now.  I had made several trips in the last year alone, I would sit in my car outside and cry.  I would get into the elevator holding back all of my sadness, because I knew when I saw her I had to make the best of it and be strong, because she was the strongest person I have ever known (my mother is exactly like her). I would think why would God do this to me, and you become so selfish crying for yourself, thinking I just want my Grandmother back.  But, I had to put my own feelings aside, because all the heartache was worth it to see her smile when you talked about her children and grandchildren.  She would be in and out, but when she told you she loved you, when she cried when you were walking away, when she smiled when she held Isla, you knew that you might have made her day a little bit better even if as soon as you walked out the door she forgot that you were there.  

She was cheated out of her last years on earth.  It is such an awful disease and it takes a strong family to see past the pain and try to make the best of it.  I will never forget the last time we saw her, most of the family was there, she seemed so happy. 

 Every time after I left her I asked God to take her to heaven.  To let her be at peace, healthy, and to join Poppy.  He has finally answered my prayers.  I thought it was going to be alot easier, but I get that selfishness back, I just want her to tell me the story of how she met my grandfather, about all the trouble my mom and aunts and uncles use to get into, I would give anything for one more normal day.  She will always be with us,  will always be in our hearts, and will continue to be loved by all of us everyday for the rest of our lives.  Rest in Peace.